07
Jun
07

Men do not prefer overweight women (BBW)

I should not have to tell women that men prefer to date women who are not overweight. I’m so tired of women fooling themselves. It’s not their fault, it’s not the fault of men out there…it’s just the way society has assimilated everyone.

Fit, Thin, Slim, Athletic = Sexy and Beautiful

Monique is not on the cover of Maxim, and it’s not because they asked her and she said no. You might get away with saying she’s too classy for that (and she really is), but it’s not the major factor as to why she’s not considered as beautiful as Halle Berry. Is she as beautiful…sure…duh. We’re all beautiful, or at least that’s what our grandmothers tell us.

Women tell other women all kinds of lies and women tell themselves all kinds of lies. But in the end how many of your fat friends are dating all the time and have men chasing after them. How many of them are depressed and you keep telling them that someone should love them “for who they are”, instead of telling them how they could be more healthy and beautiful. Sure you can bump the status quo and say, “Dammit, I’m fat and proud”. Great, good for you. But if you really got men to tell you the truth of it all…honey they prefer fit and healthy.

If you don’t believe me…search “BBW” on craigslist in the personals area sometime. You’ll find BBW haters and BBW lovers. Guess who’ll you’ll find more of.

And please don’t write me about how a man should love you for who you are…pleazzze!!! A man can’t tell how great, wonderful, intelligent, and awesome you are when he sees you on the street, in a club, at a wedding, or in a picture, etc. He just sees whether he’s attracted to you. Then he can move on to learning about you as a person.

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4 Responses to “Men do not prefer overweight women (BBW)”


  1. 1 Dee
    July 11, 2007 at 9:37 am

    I hear what your saying but tell me this…How can you speak for ALL men. So your saying a man can’t be attracted to a full figured woman. Are you going on stats or from your own personal experiences. Everyone has different taste and flavor in whom they choose to date. I personally know lots of men who prefer thick or plus size women. Yeah, maybe Monique will never be featured on the cover of Maxim but your article is about “Men do not Prefer overweight Women”, well here’s a news flash sista…..Monique has a man, who’s also her husband and correct me if I’m wrong, they had a baby last year. I’m sure if he wanted skinny and fit then that’s what he would be with. While on the other hand, Halle Barry, as beautiful and thin as she is, can’t keep a man! Sista you shouldn’t make generalizations on topics of assumptions. That’s like saying, Men do not prefer light complextion, short, tall, short hair, long hair, white, or black women. Get my point. I think if I were a man, your comment would offend me simple because your not giving men much credit for having on open mind or the intelligence to decide who and what they choose to date. When in reality some men make wiser choices when chosing a mate than women. We all know someone who’s in a relationship with a man just to say, “I got a man”, or “A man will be a man”, no matter how he treats them, some women just settle for what’s in front of them at the time. Now that’s some BS I’m really tired of hearing. But this is a whole new topic. My point is a lot of men know what they want and the key word is Variety.

    Peace & luv
    Dee

  2. July 12, 2007 at 3:39 pm

    You are right, but I’m right as well. It’s a matter of preference. I don’t need a national survey to validate what I’m saying. I can see it walking down the street, on television, at wedding, everywhere…it’s obvious. The status quo of beauty in America is supported by the media which is the major influence that keeps the preference for thin, slim, and average sized women in effect. People, men and women validate this status quo with their actions. Women constantly on diets trying to achieve a smaller size. The Diet industry makes millions. Men buying magazines with centerfolds that look nothing like the average size 14 woman. Women say that they are big and proud, etc…but very little validates that (many times even their own actions when they turn around and get gastric bypass and loose 100 pounds). Star Jones was big and proud for years…now she’s little. What happened?

    What gets me is that women just say, “No, it’s not true.” What would happen if women realized what was really going on? What if they knew how much money is being made from putting the idea that women should look a certain way in the heads of men? How many young girls would be saved from eating disorders if women got mad and really decided that judging people based on looks was wrong? That would be great. Will it happen? Not if women don’t face the reality head on, and realize that there is a standard of beauty that they are being held to against their will instead of denying it.

    I’m not denying it…I’m putting it out there so that I can get people to think.

    Thanks for thinking and taking the time to respond. I appreciate it.

  3. 3 Richard
    July 30, 2009 at 11:07 pm

    Excuse me!

    The fact of the matter is men do love Big Beautiful WOMEN in all their shapes, sizes, colors and delineations. There are more Chubby chasers and BBW admirers then are BBW haters in the entire world so I wonder why so many fat chicks do not recognize this? The internet is full of women on pornography sites that are big and beautiful and show everything. As for BWW dating sites they suck like a day old stale beer. I have joined then, profiled myself like a male prostitute and never got a date for all the money I spent looking for one. As far as Craigslist goes that is the biggest loser site ever for those looking for long term monogamous relationships? Yes you can type in BBW and boy you would think that you hit BBW heaven. The only thing is that they are not honestly looking for a commitment, but just to hang out with a skinny guy to look good. Like you walk down any street in America and what do you see, a fat girl with her skinny friends, you don’t see a fat girl with fat friends not cool. Because they have no real life of their own they think by hanging out with skinny chicks will make them look good and popular with the boys. Far from it since when there so called friends go home they are still fat and the boys aren’t asking them for dates.
    What I find so interesting is the ads BBW who post in what they are looking for is not within reality and have no clue what it is they are looking for. You get the proverbial age setting limits, the oh I like this and that music, wants communication, loves to cuddle, not looking for a booty call or a hook up and send me picture and I will send mine promise. They have no communication skills whatsoever other than the texting language, they do not know how to cook or sew or have a hobby worth sharing. BBWs are totally lost because they think all men should adore them and love them without prejudice. I am fat you should love me for what I am a Big Beautiful Woman and nothing less. And the list goes on and on and on until you get tired of reading all of the immature childish posts on what they expect, want and how the man should deliver it. Wish they would get a real clue here; men are human being not slaves and have feelings too. I will admit I have a need for a BBW in my live not just because she is big, but because she is a woman. She has intelligence and is someone who I would love walk down the street not to show her off but to genuinely have her company. I want to be her lover and companion to share what I have with her and to see that she is cared for like in any other relationship. One thing I got going for me is not only my age at 60, but I am experienced as well and no how to please a woman sexually. Young boys and young men haven’t learned those things because it takes almost your entire life to experience it and know what to do to make her feel sensational in bed. I will keep looking until the end of the earth and I know with a great amount of patience I will find the woman I desire who is Big and Beautiful and real not just a cupcake of desire! I am proud to be a Big Beautiful Woman Admirer!

  4. 4 Suri mills
    April 6, 2010 at 2:34 am

    What a shallow person you are. One thing I will tell you is that’s your narrow view not every guys view or females that’s so not the truth you should go bury your head in a bucket of horse shit


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